Author: dianafmurphy@gmail.com

Two weeks before Thanksgiving I had the pleasure of attending my youngest granddaughter’s wedding. I was impressed by how she and her fiancée choose simple décor and less elaborate and expensive elements for their wedding and reception. She was a beautiful bride and he, a charming groom. It was a bittersweet affair with the absence of her dad and grandpa, who have been promoted to heaven. I shed a few tears when my daughter walked her daughter down the aisle.

I am blessed. God has provided my needs, and many wants. He has given courage and strength when I had neither. I am learning to live a life of gratitude, which I call “thanks living.”  Last week both daughters and their families, except for three grandchildren, were around the Thanksgiving table. This year, as in some previous years, the table was shared with my deceased brother’s family. They live nearby. My sister-in-law lives on the next hill and her children’s families live several more hills and mountains away. It’s one time of the year when the cousins can play their favorite card game, “Rich Man, Poor Man.” They only see each other a few times a year.

After Thanksgiving, my family set up my 9-foot Christmas tree. I watched in amusement as they started stringing the lights around the tree. My two daughters are very different, and both have strong opinions evident from childhood. And I am proof that firstborns can be bossy. Mix in a son-in-law and two grandsons and use your imagination. I must say the males were quite restrained and the girls worked it out. I sat and remembered such events from the past and gave thanks for the love of family!

I hope you enjoyed a wonderful Thanksgiving and will continue in thanks living!

“Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” ( 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

“The Word Became Flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth”(John1:14).

The gold has arrived, but not the shiny coin kind. The golden leafy tree kind. Without cataracts I see the fall foliage in vivid colors this year. So thankful for the gift of sight! Driving over roads in my neck of the woods is like driving through golden tunnels.

Whenever I think about gold, I remember that Proverb, “A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver” (Proverbs 25:11). Imagine a silver basket full of golden apples that have been fashioned by an expert craftsman. Exquisite art, such as this, would be beautiful to behold! Are our spoken words as beautiful and valuable as a work of art?

I’m not referring to eloquent speeches. I’m referring to how our words affect the ones to whom we speak. Do we encourage with our words? Do we build up the confidence and esteem others feel? Are our words helpful?

I’m thinking of words like; “I love you.” “Let me help you.” “May I pray for you?” (And actually pray.) “You are a blessing to me.” “I’m sorry.” And you can continue the list. We all know how these words affect us in positive ways.  And we all know how negative, hurtful words affect us, too.

As a teacher, I think often about my words and ask God to guide my thinking and the words I say. There is a reason James warns us, “Not many of you should presume to be teachers . . .” (James 3:1a). He goes on in chapter 3 and discusses how hard it is to control our tongues.  James does give us a plan for controlling our tongues and that is “wisdom”.  He describes the wisdom from God in James 3:17. It’s “pure, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.” Does that describe the words we speak?

My words often fail that test, but James gives us a solution to that problem, as well. He says, “if any of you lacks wisdom he should ask God, who gives generously to all” (James 1:5). That is a prayer I must pray often.

God, the Creator of all, communicates with us through words. To know God, we must know His Word. Not just those written in the Bible, but The Word, Jesus Messiah. Our Savior!

Best rule I know for talkin’ is the same as the one for carpenterin’: Measure twice and saw once.

Speech is the index of the mind. (Quotes from Apples of Gold, compiled by Jo Petty. Author unknown_)

I am not one to read special meanings into natural things, but sometimes I am surprised by them. Earlier this month I noticed the cloud with a heart shaped opening. I was reminded how much God loves me and I also thought of my many friends who care about me and love me. Sometimes when one lives alone, it is easy to fall into a puddle of self-pity. That’s not where God’s child belongs.

A few days ago, I noticed the top of one of my lilacs had blooms and fresh leaves!  Lilacs bloom in the Spring, April or May. These three bushes had lost nearly all their leaves due to weeks of drought. So those green leaves caught my attention. Thank you, God, for this unexpected beauty and sweet scent to brighten my day!

King David says in Psalm 17:7-9:

“Show the wonder of your great love, you who save by your right hand those who take refuge in you from their foes. Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings from the wicked who assail me, from my mortal enemies who surround me.”

I am distressed when I see the turmoil our world is in these days. I fear what kind of life my grandchildren or even my children will experience. David’s words can apply to today’s situation just as they did to his. His enemies were different from ours, but we who wear the Name of Jesus Christ face Satan’s attacks. His fiery darts come from many directions such as moral and ethical situations, false teachers who want to lead us astray, and even from our own government. Let us never forget Who saves us and where our refuge is found!

Thank you, God, for reminding me of your great love even in September Surprises!

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows” (James 1:17).

Be encouraged, my friend!

Yesterday, I attended Sunday worship via the Internet, thanks to Covid. (Don’t get me started down that “rabbit hole”!) Whenever I must be home on Sunday, I usually listen in to more than one message, and yesterday was no different. I heard two.  The first sermon was by a young preacher from my older daughter’s home church. He was beginning a series on “The Vine” from John 15. Jesus is the Vine and we, His people, are the branches. Branches bearing no fruit are cut off and branches bearing fruit are pruned to bear more fruit. Also, the branch must remain with the vine, it cannot bear fruit by itself.

“Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me” (John 15:4).

The second message was from a guest preacher at my home church who compared a tree growing by streams of water that flourishes to a shrub trying to grow in a desert with little water.

“He (v. 1 the one who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked) is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers” (Psalms 1:3).

“He (v.5 the one whose heart tuns away from the Lord) will be like a bush in the wastelands; he will not see prosperity when it comes. He will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives” (Jeremiah 17:6).

For a tree to be prosperous and bear fruit it needs a good root system. Roots help a tree to grow by allowing nutrients to reach all parts of the tree. Roots give it stability and of course when the roots are connected to the tree it has the nourishment it needs to bear fruit.

The speaker pointed out the importance of stability when the storms of life come our way. If our roots are well grounded in the soil of God’s Word, we are less apt to be uprooted when we face the difficulties of life. He also illustrated the connectedness we need with each other by reminding us how the mighty redwood trees can grow so tall and strong by interconnecting their roots with the trees around them.

I think God must want me to get this message about staying connected to Jesus and others to be strong and bear fruit for the Kingdom. He gave it to me twice! I better listen. What does God want me to do? It’s a question I ask frequently. He wants me to bring Him glory in everything I do. He wants me to concentrate more on the eternal things than on the temporary things. He wants me to see the urgency in evangelism.

Reading the Bible and praying is very important, but we must do more. That’s where we soak up the living water and nutrients for growth, but I must put actions with the prayers. Write that note, make that call or visit, extend that invitation, spend time with the lonely, or write that check.

And look for opportunities to speak about Jesus to others. There are only two destinations for our souls: heaven, or hell. That decision must be made now, before we die. Am I sharing the Good News of salvation? Am I bearing fruit for the Kingdom?

“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.” (2 Peter 3:18).

I have enjoyed a few rain showers recently and the grass is beginning to get green again. I am most happy about not having to water my garden every day. I’m enjoying green beans, tomatoes, squash, peppers, cucumbers, and beets. Though the produce is stunted due to the dry weather I still have enough to eat and some to can for future use. I am grateful. These hot days prevent me from getting the weeds out as quickly as I’d like. I work on it a little bit in the evenings. And would you believe? I get tired easily. Another disadvantage of age!

Lest I dwell too long on the disadvantages of aging, I must focus on something else. I listen to the news, watch the media with its propaganda and misleading advertising, but is that a good place to focus my attention?

Scripture points me in a different direction.  Psalm 141:8-9 says, “My eyes are fixed on you, O Sovereign Lord; in you I take refuge–do not give me over to death. Keep me from the snares they have laid for me, from the traps set by evildoers.” David, the Psalm writer, had to confront evil in his day just as we must confront it today. Evil may present itself in different ways at different times in history, but it is evil non the less. With todays’ political environment we have to take a stand for righteousness and to do that we must shelter our lives and minds with the truth of God’s Word. Without this protection we may be overwhelmed by the evil surrounding us.

“Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God” (Hebrews 12:2).

Jesus endured an evil and cruel death. He willingly allowed it to happen to pay the price for our salvation. The writer of Hebrews goes on to encourage us to “not grow weary and lose heart” (verse 3). When I focus on Jesus and what He did for me I am encouraged to continue focusing on that truth. I will not despair amid evil because I know who is really in charge and I know in the end righteousness will overcome evil. Where is your focus?

 

These past weeks have been like a “word desert” for me. Nothing seemed urgent enough to write about. Some days I’m just plain lazy and unmotivated! (There. I said it!) So, it’s been good to have some things to motivate me to action. Having company does that for me. Smiles and good times have dropped into my life.

My eleven-year-old grandson spent 10 days with me, half of which included a 45-minute trip to Vacation Bible School each evening.  He enjoyed seeing his friends from the church I attend, but after a week this grandma was tired. And I didn’t even help with the VBS, just drove him there and back home. It was worth it to help him make memories. We also visited a Nature Center and took a long hike in the woods.

Included in those ten days was a whole lot of painting. My son-in-law and six foot plus grandson had taken down all the window shutters so I could paint them. All 26 pieces!

My sister and brother-in-law came for a weekend. That included a Saturday morning hike and playing games in the evening. The following weekend my younger daughter and son-in-law came to put the shutters back on the house. Thankful for their help. The new paint perked up the outside of the house. Their visit perked up my spirit.

Last week I had cataract surgery for the left eye with the right eye scheduled for this coming week. Already the world is looking brighter and definite improvement in far eyesight. New glasses are in the future, but in the meantime, I’ve had to pull out an old pair in order to read. I’m thanking God for the improvements.

As for the “word desert”. I’ve begun reading the Psalms this month. Such an oasis of words! The Psalms are refreshment for the soul as showers of rain to the parched grass.  The Psalms give many word pictures of who God is. He is our refuge, strength, comforter, creator, fortress, light, salvation, rock, and much more! God fills the need whatever the situation. Why do I not praise Him more often?

Psalm 67

“May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face shine upon us,

That your ways may be known on earth, Your salvation among all nations.

May the peoples praise you, O God; may all the peoples praise you.

May the nations be glad and sing for joy, for you rule the peoples justly

And guide the nations of the earth. May the peoples praise you, O God;

May all the peoples praise you. Then the land will yield its harvest,

And God, our God, will bless us. God will bless us, and all the ends of the earth will fear him.”

“Rejoice in the Lord always, I will say it again: Rejoice!”

Philippians 4:4

May has been a busy month for me! I’ve taken four trips in the last five weeks. My traveling started the last weekend of April, when I attended the Eastern Christian College Alumni Reunion which was held on the old campus. I attended there 1962-1964. The campus is no longer a college campus but instead it houses an alternative school and a Christian school. Campuses change and time moves onward.

Two weekends in May were college graduations. My youngest granddaughter graduated from Johnson University in TN and my oldest grandson graduated from Virginia Commonwealth University. Four of my seven grandchildren are finished with college, and one has her Masters.  Children grow up and time moves onward.

My high school Alumni Association has a reunion dinner every year. This was the 60^th year for me and last year was my brother’s 50^th. (It was not held for two years.) My brother was our speaker this year as we celebrated three classes becoming part of the Half-century Club. It was well attended but of course, many were missing either by death or choice.  Some move away and don’t travel the distance for a reunion. The Class of 2022 is now part of the Alumni Association and time moves onward year after year.

Most recently, I attended the Murphy Family Reunion, which has been happening since 1977. It was a beautiful day and not too hot or too cold. Food was plentiful and delicious! More folks attended this year than last. Many of us are looking older and several faces were missing. Mom and Dad Murphy and three brothers have gone to their eternal home. People get older, eventually death comes to all, and yet time moves onward for the next generation.

As I grow older these life milestones become more meaningful. Celebrations are important while we live because people are important. From birth to death life is short, no matter how long we life. Our purpose is to live for the glory of God. He created us, sustains us, and chooses to save us through the death of Jesus if we accept the wonderful gift!

Choosing to accept God’s gift of salvation is the only way we can be sure of our ultimate graduation to Heaven and our rejoicing at the greatest reunion ever!

“Show me, O Lord, my life’s end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting is my life. You have made my days a mere handbreadth; the span of my years is as nothing before you. Each man’s life is but a breath” (Psalms 39:4-5).

“But God will redeem my life from the grave; he will surely take me to himself” (Psalms 49:15).

“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints (Psalm 116:15).

“I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone—for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:1-4).

I have read this passage many times and missed a big chunk of the message. Yes, I pray for our leaders both government and church leaders. The part I missed is the reason Paul gives us for doing so. First, he suggests that it helps us “live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.”  Of course, that is good, and it pleases God, but look at the last section.   God wants all people to be saved and to know the truth!

Perhaps, if we prayed for our leaders with this is mind our prayers would be more fruitful for the Kingdom. Our leaders need Jesus, too and it is evident that some have no interest in the things of God or His truth. That doesn’t change their need. We don’t have access to most of our government leaders, but God does. And our prayers could make a difference for their eternal destiny and the destiny of the Nation.

I believe the only way our Nation can be saved from losing our freedoms is through the Church and the prayers of God’s people. I am thankful for those in government who carry the voice of truth and they especially need our prayers for wisdom and endurance.

Our history is rich with accounts of government leaders who depended on God and sought His wisdom in prayer. I think of George Washington and Abraham Lincoln who led our Nation in challenging times. Both recognized their dependence on God for successfully leading a nation. We need more leaders like these.

I read King Solomon’s prayer in 1 Kings, upon the dedication of the temple, and was impressed by his intercession for God’s people. King Solomon recognized God’s promises to His people and prayed for mercy and forgiveness for them when they would stray from God. Wouldn’t it be a wonderful thing if we had government leaders who prayed for the people they govern? I’m sure there are some who do.

As James says, “the prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective” (James 5:16).

“Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king” (1 Peter 2:17).

Living by this verse could change the world!

I will praise the Lord, who counsels me;

even at night my heart instructs me.

I have set the Lord always before me.

Because he is at my right hand,

I will not be shaken.

Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices;

 my body also will rest secure,

because you will not abandon me to the grave,

nor will you let your Holy One see decay.

You have made known to me the path of life;

you will fill me with joy in your presence,

with eternal pleasures at your right hand.

Psalm 16:7-11

This world in which we live isn’t looking very inviting: war, inflation, open border, weak government administration, and the list could go on. Anyone who is awake and sane knows things are not right. What to do? Of course, let our voices be heard with our representatives at both local and national levels. Make your approvals and disapprovals known to them. But if we want to remain sane and satisfied, we must look beyond this world.

David, in Psalm 16, asserts that God is his refuge and his sustainer. He chooses to “set the Lord always before” him. He trusts God to keep him safe so he can rest secure. He does not fear the grave because he knows God will fill him with joy in His presence. David looks forward to eternal pleasures with God.

This Psalm is a Messianic psalm. The Apostles Peter and Paul, both quote it in the New Testament when referring to Jesus’ resurrection. David did not see the Messiah in his days on earth, but he knew a Savior was to come someday. Praise God and Hallelujah the Savior has come! He lived to show us how to live and died to show us death is not the end. Death was defeated on the third day when Jesus rose from the dead and walked with his disciples long enough to prove He really was alive!

If we are Jesus’ disciples today and remain faithful to Him, we have the assurance, as David did, of enjoying joy and eternal pleasures with God after this life. So, in the midst of this world’s trouble and trials we “set the Lord always before” us. As the writer of Hebrews reminds us, “Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart” (Hebrews 12:2-3).

Happy Resurrection Day!